My Top 5 Tips to Life/Achieving your dreams:
My Top 5 Tips
1. Believe in your self/Know thy Self/Integrate all, including shadow aspects..
Knowing yourself, your shadow aspects, your strength and weaknesses is a huge benefit to become your fullest potential. When we understand ourselves, our needs and desires, we have a bench mark of what we create and what comes into our lives. Using tools and resources and delegation to others with the things that are our weaknesses, or seeking a mentor to change our minds and way we think and act, that creates these blocks and challenges within us. Like a fear of heights we can overcome our short comings by loving them, facing them and having a plan to overcome and limit their negative affects on us. Learning about our shadow aspects, helps us to integrate different parts of self and become much more aware of what we create in our reality, what we avoid and what we give our power and energy away to.
“With self awareness and reflection, all obstacles become miracles in the making.” –Cynthia Jauch
2. Let go of what doesn’t serve you/including beliefs/ know when to let go/start with comparison and judgement.
While we hold on to things we become stuck and stagnant, feeling like we don’t know what to do and how to move forward, we can create road blocks and self sabotage to create the proof of a belief or thought we hold. The universal energy does not decide if something feels good or bad to you, it will give you what you energetically ask for. So judgement of yourself or others will create that situation to keep judging and not liking and that feeling of dislike can keep growing and attracting more of that to you. When we judge we separate ourselves and say we are better or we are worse, comparison can be our worst nightmare. We can compare until the cows come home haha, but really we are who we are meant to and I beleive we choose our vessel and our strengths and weaknesses, by our name and date of birth, as a soul before incarnation, for the purpose of guiding us to understanding things, in our state of amnesia when we are born. Having a regular cord cutting and releasing ceremony, with a letter and/or to do list of what to let go of and sometimes a burning ceremony, is so important to identify and have the intention to let go of those things holding us back, from our divine purpose, fulfilment and happiness.
What can you let go of?
“Freedom is liberation, liberation is expansion, expansion is love, love is truth, truth is Freedom. To let go of the chains and heaviness of illusion, grants us a path to ALL of the above.” – Cynthia Jauch
3. Transform your words and your mind/ your words reflect your thoughts and your thought create your reality/view of reality.
“I AM that I AM” (from the Bible -Abraham)
“I Am that I Am is the common English translation of the response God used in the Hebrew Bible when Moses asked for his name. It is one of the most famous verses in the Torah.”
– Powerful words, anything you put next to them creates what you become, by your command to your mind and the extended mind, this is one of my favourite topics to speak about. Words are an extension of your thoughts and your thoughts are what command your reality, hence why people use words and thoughts for prayer and affirmations. After I learnt this lesson and started shifting my mind, words and also the vibration and intention behind them, it gave my life a hint of magic and things transformed. Relating to tip 1 of your self knowing and awareness, these go hand in hand, when you know yourself, shadows and words and thoughts, you begin to hold the power to change them.
I encourage you do to a test, so catch your self out with 5 words you would say after “I AM”, if it is something not desired or not nice about you or someone else, than change it to the best thing you can think of and continue to do this with 5 words on going. I am curious to see what it changes in your life. Please comment and let me know.
GOD is the WORD and the WORD is GOD
4. Allow balance in giving and receiving/allow yourself to receive/be grateful and be generous where ever you can.
“What you sow you shall reap” – Galatians 6:7
Balance is the key to so much of life, fulfilment, it is something that takes a long time, experience and dedication to change in order to find, the stable ebb and flow we all desire. To feel grounded and supported but to also have movement and surrender to the changes of life. I have had very many ups and downs as we all have and I NOW am very grateful for the experience to learn the above tip of letting go, and surrendering to the cycles and flow of life, to help find balance, learn lessons of usefulness and fulfilment and I feel blessed to have had the wonderful experiences I have had.
Balance is really about learning the middle path through both poles of duality, find a curious understanding for the reason and sometimes need for both sides, but choosing to remain in the centre. I went from one extreme to the other, often telling people it was to find my centre. Although that has helped greatly, I also realised I was addicted to the extremes. Until I decided this did not always serve me, my path or the goal I desired. So it’s really about choices, awareness and commitment to those things that allow you to feel balanced, centred and at peace, for these tools, different for many are the building blocks for consistent growth and for not letting the storm in life to cause a ship wreck of things. Although it is in these ship wrecks in life we can become humbled and find even greater truths and gems, sometimes it can be needed to propel us forward again and to give a clean slate for healing and rising higher.
“What is it that decides what you give? What are you happy to give without expecting in return? Do you allow yourself to receive from others? Help? Guidance? Love and more?
As I travel around the world, as I surrender some of my knowing and stability to journeying and trusting my path, things are both simple and at times complicated. Even those I have helped so much, often have appeared to struggle to want to give back and help when I have been in much need (although this is from an inner story and reflection). This really got me thinking what leads us to give, be generous or help someone in need?
Is it different for each of us? – I believe we can be to concerned with what is ours and what is others and draw big lines about what we want to share of ourselves, this can create massive separation, and also it can cause us some guilt. We can always share and give more and we will always have more given to us, their is really and infinite expanse of abundance in the universe if we allow ourselves to receive it and giving to others really feels so good.”
5. Honour yourself in all ways possible/Self Love/ Be Creative/ Move and Nourish your Temple/Boundaries/Express your truth and be authentic.
So these are BIG ones, we might say this is a loaded one with many parts haha so we will split it into A, B and C:
A) Honour yourself in all ways possible;
Ok! so first off, what does honour mean to you? Define this for you before you move on, write a letter to yourself beginning with “I Honour Myself by, ……” and then end it and write something after with “I Honour Myself Because, …..”. A lot of us are not taught or encouraged to give ourselves first and then others honour, we don’t get taught this in school, we get told what to do and to obey what we are told. Honour and respect are similar but different, honour has a sense of reverence and deep love to it. Write a list of ways you are going to honour yourself more regularly and get your LOVE bucket filled. The Self in this also goes back to tip 1, know thyself/beleive in thyself. So you can work in harmony with you.
B) Self Love – Creativity, Move, Nourish your temple and Boundaries;
This one is by far one of the most important lessons I have learned, especially for relationships and growth, for without loving thyself we do not know how to properly love others. This one takes some time to cultivate new practices, to reinvent what your relationships, thoughts/words (as above tip) and actions are and changing negative self beliefs and letting go to find balance (above tips).
“Self love. What does it mean? #LoveYourSelf
To me self love is about removing all the thoughts, feelings, words and actions which are unloving towards ourselves. This is a process, but an extremely important one. When we are unconsciously feeling unworthy and unloved by us or by others, we create sabotage and punishment for ourselves. Leaving us feeling lonely, abandoned and unworthy of the things we deserve and desire. But we have put ourselves there. Yes, our society does not educate us to embrace our individuality, in fact it suppresses our nifty quirks and gifts, all to be the same for a future of feeling enslaved by a system and grabbing at little things to create joy and fulfilment, easily addicted to that little time we feel love, or joy and then when it is gone, we crumble, not having a solid pillar of inner love for us, which is so important for our growth, fulfilment and connections in life.” (if interested in my “Self Love Up’ 21 day online program click above link to other article to sign up)
Interview for my “Self Loved Up” online Program.
C) Express your truth and BE authentic;
For me being authentic and honest has been a core value my whole life, but there is a revolution at the moment in business and just in society to step up and be YOU, I have had mantra since my teen years of “Be Real, Be True, Be Honest, Be YOU”, it stuck around with me and got tattooed on my arm. Now I can honestly say, expressing your truth and being an authentic person is 1. really important for close relationships 2. important to be trusted and 3. One of the hardest things in our society to be accepted for doing. With this in mind we are all NOW breaking the mould of our suppressed ancestors. Helping to both heal us and our KARMA but also theirs. So if you are curious, dig a little deeper and ask yourself “How can I speak my truth more and be more authentic today?”
“So in the theme of being totally authentically you. What makes you YOU? and how can you embrace the light and dark of yourself fully? In a compassionate and loving way on your journey?
- Be honest in the mirror of where you are at, no matter where that is.
- See yourself with love and compassion, need be forgive yourself for the past.
- Check your values align to your higher self (that place within that wants the good of all, Ecology)
- See a way forward, allow the illusion of self and ego to reveal itself, don’t let it be in the drivers seat.
- Remember and Embrace your power and birth right to choose your life, be a co-creator.
- See your true gifts from birth, get passionate and grateful and use them.”
Finally I feel these things well integrated and the below is some of the experiences that have come from my commitment to the above lessons I learnt:
“Best thing I herd today: “Keep thinking big and keep the space in your plans and schedule for those who get it and also think big.”I really took so much restoration from the other big thinkers I connected with and was refreshed to KNOW others got it and also had the same BIG plans, and when we come together and THINK them, Believe them, KNOW them and fill them with LOVE, nothing will stop them from being seen and felt by many, as the visions come together, as all the puzzle pieces are uniting.
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With Peace, Love and Light.
Namaste – Infinite blessings